📝 AITAH- Going on free dinners with someone I’m not romantically interested in?

By Thali_G • Score: 0 • April 16, 2025 3:12 AM


AITAH- to be fair I Told him I’m not interested romantically but I do appreciate the free dinners he is taking me out to…

I (21 F) met this guy (28 M) at the park on Valentine’s Day actually lol. He asked me out and I initially went for it but after 2 dates I didn’t think we were compatible romantically and we just called it quits.

He likes to try new restaurants out and asks me to accompany him. Saturday was the 5th time we went out to dinner after I told him I was not interested and these are pretty upscale places where 2 ppl can easily spend over $200 on dinner. I told him I don’t want him to waste his money on me but he convinced me he isn’t trying to impress me or anything and just wants company. He hasn’t brought up dating since then and he even tells me about dates he has been on. Is this normal?

I appreciate the dinners and the conversation he seems to be really mature and I do know he is a bitcoin millionaire, I’m not entitled to his money at all. I just don’t want to feel like I’m using him…AITAH?

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