For context: I have an undercut but overall I'm trying to grow out my hair, and I'm incredibly picky about my haircuts, and my hair styling in general.

Earlier this week, like the Friday/Saturday before Easter, I tried to dye my undercut but the dye didn't take properly for whatever reason. I happened to have plans with a friend that day and they offered to help me redye my undercut, and give it a trim since it had grown out a bit since it'd been cut which I agreed to.

When we were starting working on my hair and discussing touching up my dye, they suggested giving me money pieces which I also agreed to. In my house, there's not a good spot for me to sit for them to work on my hair where I could look in a mirror while they're doing it so I couldn't see what they were doing when they were standing behind me.

In them working on my hair, they trimmed my hair overall-which included adding more layers to my haircut. I'd JUST gotten a haircut at the end of February/beginning of March, and actually really liked how my hair looked. There wasn't a ton of volume but my intention with the haircut was keeping my length not increasing volume.

They also trimmed my bangs so they're more obviously bangs, and I can no longer pull them back-which is what I was wanting when I got my haircut. I actually thought my bangs were too short when my haircut was initially done because I didn't want obvious bangs I wanted face framing pieces.

As for the bits they dyed, the undercut looks great-the color we opted for is brighter than I was hoping for so I decided to just tone my money pieces instead. They did tone more of the front of my hair than I wanted, which again they didn't really ask me about how much I wanted done they just did it and since they already had bleach in their hands I couldn't tell them to stop because it was already touching my hair.

We bleached/cut my hair one day, and dyed my hair the next. The day we dyed my hair they asked what I thought about the haircut and I was honest with them that it wasn't really what I was wanting, and that they did more than what I'd wanted them to do. I felt kinda put on the spot so I probably wasn't the nicest in how I told them, and I could tell that I'd hurt their feelings-which I do feel bad about.

But I've been trying to grow my hair out for a few years now and especially when it was first cut I was really worried I'd have to cut a few inches off to fix it.

TL;DR: My friend took some liberties in cutting and dying my hair, and I'm really upset over it.