Last night we went to the grocery store and as usual, he didn't want to go in with me. He said he wasn't comfortable for various reasons, namely that he hadn't showered. However, I was also uncomfortable and hesitant to go in alone and didn't want to. I sat for a while and he said he'd go in with me and did so reluctantluy. Afterwards, I mentioned how I could've gotten mince for tomorrow's dinner and we wouldn't have to go to the store again. He asked me to go back in for it. I said instead of that perhaps we could get takeaway which he agreed to. Then today I mentioned takeaway and he said no. He suggested we cooked something instead. I went over options, all of which would require going to the store for, and he agreed to them. I said I could get ingredients for tomorrow's dinner, as well, and he said okay to that.

Fast forward and I had an alarm set for when we needed to go as the store closes earlier today. It went off and I said if we were getting takeaway, or going to the store, we needed to go soon as they both closed at the same time. He said no to takeaway again. He rolled his eyes complaining we haven't gotten anything done today, particularly the selling that we were supposed to have done. I acknowledged this but said we needed to go regardless and couldn't leave it. He then said he wasn't going to the store. That he told me to get mince last night. I said this was if we got takeaway which he said no to multiple times. And that he also discussed dinner with me earlier knowing I needed to go to the store for it, and he didn't say anything about not wanting to go then.

I said I needed to go. He said if we got takeaway could we avoid going to the store. He started going on about how he wasn't going into the store with me. When I never expected him to, when I knew he wasn't, and when I never said anything indicating I thought he was. Even after I clarified that I didn't think he was nor did I want him to, he said he wasn't going to take me, and didn't want to drive there, which he claims was said out of anger. Now he's saying that he assumed because we weren't getting takeaway, and the plans had changed, that I would have automatically assumed he was going to go in with me. Instead of asking me this, or just stating he wasn't going in, he went on the defense about all of it and caused an argument.

He claims this was a misunderstanding and is blaming me. He is saying that he never challenged driving to the store just going in with me. He says it's just a big misunderstanding and that I was the one arguing over it. Why not make the assumption earlier when we discussed dinner, why not tell me then he wasn't going in with me it he thought I expected him to? It doesn't make any sense to me.