I (19f) have been dating my bf Keagan (23m) for a few months now and last night he asked about my past. He asked how many guys I've been with before our relationship, at first i avoided the topic because i notice a lot of guys get offended and it always ends in a fight but he wouldn't stop asking me. I said he was my 7th and i could tell it got him really upset. ill be honest i did kindaa lie, it’s close to 20 but i didnt tell him because i knew hed get upset. keep in mind a lot of them were 1 night stands so i dont really count them.

Keagan wouldn't even talk to me afterwards which i thought was really hypocritical because his bodycount is 10. I called him a dick because he's getting mad over something that shouldn't even matter, i told him he has no right to judge someone when his number is even higher. Even then you still shouldn't judge someone off their bodycount. Keagan just doesnt like that ive taken a lot of dick before him.

He claimed because im younger it should be lower and also according to him guys having a high bodycount doesn't matter... This was the dumbest thing I've ever heard, i told him for a man to get a high bodycount other girls would also have to increase their bodycount. It's basic math but he can't even seem to comprehend that.

I didn't stay at his apartment last night and went to my parents house instead. This morning he texted me apologizing and said he wants to talk about this in person but i said i wanted a break. I felt like he was slutshaming me over my bodycount and i would need some time to get over it. Idk what to do anymore

Some of my friends said i should move on and find a 20th guy. im lowkey tempted but i also dont wanna be a slut anymore. are there any guys out there that dont care about bodycount and just wanna have fun? srslyy let me know im open to exploree

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