A good friend of mine (31f) teaches art at a local school in our community. For a few years I have helped her out by posing for life drawings for her class (I had done it for a bit in college so I volunteered when she mentioned she was having trouble finding people to pose nude).

The classes are between 15-20 students, all ages, between college aged up to even retired folks. I have made a habit of asking for a list of names in the class before I pose, just to be prepared in case I know someone.

For posing I am doing tomorrow, I’ve learned that there will be two people I know - a married couple that I know through our kids’ school. I am friendly with them, but not close, and it’s likely they don’t know I am posing for the class.

It’s too late to pull out without being disruptive, and I don’t really want to do that anyway. My question is, should I reach out to the wife before tomorrow and give her a heads up? AITAH if I don’t?