šŸ“ AITAH if I like my roommates boyfriend shamelessly no guilt whatsoever.

By Ok-Challenge6254 • Score: 0 • April 19, 2025 11:58 PM


I’ve been living with my roommate for almost 3-4 months already. She (19F) has a boyfriend who she treats like an object. At first it seemed like he was the toxic one because of the horrible things she’d say about him. But I then started seeing that he’s actually very introverted, misunderstood, and just minds his own business. Just like I am. In the beginning she talked so much crap about him and there’s a lot of inconsistencies. Plus she also mentioned to me that’s she’s gay multiple times and even says it while they’re cuddling😭. From my understanding, he’s straight so a lavender relationship is out of the equation for now. I am just minding my own business. Don’t consider her a close friend just keeping things civil. At first she brought him over more often now it’s like once or twice a week for just a few mins (which is better for me tbh). I think she realized I know she’s hiding something weird and doesn’t want me to take action? I won’t try to budge in or be his friend but I can’t help finding him alluring. Sometimes I catch him looking at me when I come out of my room to make food or coffee. I just say hey and leave it @ that.

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