Hey yall! My hubby (48m) and I (35f) have been together for 5 years. He stuck by me when I lost my legs dues to sepsis in Oct 2023, and he us literally my rock. I have never suspected cheating, and I have honestly never even caught him checking out another female. His direct supervisor is a woman she is about 45. Here is just a few things that she has said/done that has mad me feel uncomfortable. *follwed me on tiktok when I have never spoken to her. *she asked my husband to work on a Saturday and he said he already had plans and she responded (fuck me) *she told my husband "I was creeping on ur girls tiktok and saw u doing her hair, that's so cute" *she BLOCKED my phone number, so now if there is emergency and I cant get ahold of my husband I have to go through multiple people. *one day when I passed out and my husband had to leave work early to come to the hospital and get the kids she texted my phone to find out if he was telling the truth. *yesterday she told my husband that about 5 months ago I called her and told her people on his truck were doing drugs and she should drug test them.

Am I wrong for getting mad that I went outside yesterday after life 360 said my husband had been home for 15 and he was pacing back and forth on the phone with her? Apparently 2 people in his truck got into a fight and he was supposed to call and give his version of events as soon as he got home. When I asked him why he stayed outside a didn't come right in he said "I was pacing back and forth and I knew you could see I was home." He didn't end his conversation when I cane out or lie about who he was on the phone with. Am I wrong for not wanting him to answer any texts or phone calls from hwr outside of work hours? He says "well she is my boss".. okay I get that but she obviously has a crush on him or something. She is literally gonna make some shit up and try to cause problems in my relationship? This woman is married as well. I don't know what to do, I know I'm insecure, but name any woman that has lost thier legs less than 2 years ago that wouldn't be insecure. He hardly ever goes to the office, ans avoids going there whenever he can, and I don't think he has cheated, I just don't know what to do about the situation, I can't stop thinking about it.