PLEASE do not include this on a youtube video or any other playform.

My partner and I ( both 23m) have been in a relationship for 7 or so years, and lately there's been so many fights because he's been so pissy and annoyed by everything due to mental health issues. I've tried my best to be patient with him because I know he's struggling, but it's getting so bad lately. The fight we had today was over text, I'll transcribe it below. I don't know if I'm the asshole here or not. The ( )s are my comments to make things more clear for you guys.

Me: hey my love, I really wanna see you but I am exhausted and idk if I'm up to leaving the house. would you wanna cone over here instead? we can play some games too on Xbox of Playstation if you want? you could also meet mickey (that's our cat )

Him: Fuxk I was gunna ask if you could bring over syringes but whatever ig, hope you get some rest (syringes for a medication injection)

Me: his name come on don't be upset about that. you have your days where you don't want to leave the house. if you wanna come over we have syringes you can take back with you

Me: (after a while of no response) I'm always the one going over there because you don't want to leave the house, I can have my days like that too

a while of no response so I go take a nap because I slept one hour the previous night

Him: Can mom drive over and pick up some syringes? She’s out already picking up Groceries

a little while goes by, I'm asleep and don't hear my phone

Him: Nvm

more time goes by

Him: do you still want me to come over?

an hour later, still asleep

Him: whatever

two hours later, I wake up and see my phone

Me: Fuck I'm sorry

Me: I fell asleep , I didn't mean to sleep that long

Me: I'm so sorry

Me: I'm really sorry hon, I feel horrible about it, it was only meant to be a short nap

Me: I only slept an hour last night and I guess I just crashed hard :(

Me: I kind of thought you weren't going to come over because of what you said before so I thought a nap would've been fine

Me: I feel horrible about it name I'm so sorry

Him: We'll try again next weekend ig

Me: I'm so sorry name I feel horrible

Him: Yeah whatever

Me: name it really wasn't on purpose

Me:I wanted you to come over and hang out. I didn't mean to sleep that long

Me: I know you're mad at me I just want you to know that I didn't do anything on purpose

Him: If you don’t want me around just fucking say so and stop making excuses for everything

Me: dude I was asleep! I had such a shit sleep last night so I crashed. I'm not making excuses for shit

Me: ykw nevermind I'm done apologizing

Me: you don't wanna belive me then fine but I'm telling you the truth and I already feel bad enough for it without being accused of that shit

Him: Just stop making plans you know you can’t folllow through with

Me: ffs it was an accident

Me: there's a LOT of plans I follow through with. don't make me out to be a horrible person for accidentally falling asleep after I only had an hour of sleep the night before

Him:Whatever, just say you don’t have the time for me

Me: for fucks sake I'm done. text me back when you calm down

two hours later

Him: I'm sorry. I love you.

Me: I love you too

Me: again I'm sorry but it was an accident

(doesn't respond for the rest of the day)

So that's the whole thing. I've been really upset about this all day and I really don't know if I'm the asshole in this situation. Again PLEASE keep this to this subreddit. No youtube videos or other platforms. I'll be taking this down later because I'd rather my partner doesn't see this. I just need to know if I'm in the wrong and advice if possible because idk what to do