My husband has been taking this girl back and forth to work, which I was okay with, because she didn't have another ride, although I don't know why she needed him to go back and forth. Well, I had looked up how long it takes to get from his work, her apartment, then back to our house. Google Maps says 30 minutes, although we do live in a busy town so I give him 10 extra minutes. He doesn't get home until about an hour to an hour and thirty minutes to get home. He's now started asking if she wants to go to church with us and inviting her to the house. He even called her babe. I have tried mentioning that I don't feel comfortable with him hanging around her. Lets be clear that I don't care if he has female friends. BUT THERE ARE BOUNDARIES, and I feel that my boundaries have been broken. When I brought this up to him, he just dismissed me. He didn't care about what I had to say about it nor did he really care. I'm at a loss, and wondering if I should just call it quits.
PS: I forgot to mention that he also buys this girl food and stuff, but he complains when he takes me out that I don't help pay, I've also helped pay a lot before when I did have a job, but I had just lost my job not that long ago, because I'm autistic and slow, so I have a hard time finding/keeping a job around the area that I live because I'm too slow. Recently it was my birthday. He didn't say "Happy Birthday" to me. I was talking about going to my mom's on my birthday and he had asked me to stay home because he had some things planned for me. However we wound up not doing anything. Then that Sunday, he goes to pick her up and she didn't come to the door because she didn't think that he was being serious. However he had told her, "No I keep my promises." But what happened to the promise that he had made me for my birthday?? We didn't do anything at all, he didn't even really acknowledge that I even really existed, if I would've known, I would've just hang out with my mom. I mean he did take me out the day after, but still he could've said Happy Birthday, I didn't even care that we did anything, I would've been just as happy with a "Happy Birthday". I also paid $40 for my part of the bill for the food when we went out to eat for my birthday, because he complained that the bill was $60.