I've been dating this girl for a year and for the first 8 months everything was going great but now I feel like I'm constantly being pushed to the side. I don't get txt back for 4+ hrs at a time she apologizes for something but then continues to do the same shit the next day. she doesn't talk to me much anymore and then gets upset and blames me as the problem. I've tried to talk to her and put in the effort or try to play games with her. I go down 3 hr to see her because she doesnt drive usually every or every other week but lately it just seems like everything I do is in vain and I don't have the strength to drive 3hrs to cut it off in person and but i feel like an terrible bf if I cut it off over txt. Anyone got any ideas? Should I just just cut it off idk what to do. I try to talk to her and then she gets upset and sad and makes me feel like the bad guy.