By Ulfr117 • Score: 7 • April 18, 2025 12:47 AM
I (34M) met an OF model (24F) on Tinder. She had her Snapchat tag on her profile which I looked up to add to see if she would respond. To my surprise, she did. We chat for a little. I glean that she is a college student. She said she was studying for "psych and bio." She welcomes me a distraction from her studies because she had been at all day. She then starts to ask me sensual questions which I answered honestly. I find her to be very attractive. But she also wants to know if I am willing to be part of her page. I did ask if I would receive compensation, she still hasn't answered that (I'll give an update on this part). She then proceeds to ask me to play a game to see if I'm not a creep or weirdo as part of her process to weed those guys out. I get the surface reasoning: safety. But after much probing for a deeper answer she admits that she's been hurt in the past by guys that were respectful but turned to be complete assholes. Would she be the asshole for having me play her game just to prove I am not what she thinks I am? Mind you, I have not been disrespectful or dishonest with her. All I want is to get to know her without these silly games or loopholes just to go on one date. I would prefer the sexual stuff to come after she and I get to know each other. But it seems like she is not emotionally available like she wants me to be when she first asked me on Snapchat. Then would I be the asshole for challenging her process? What are your guys' perspectives?
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