I (M16, M15 at the time) SAed my partner (F17, F16 at the time) last year in May. I felt her up in school with people around before asking beforehand, in a manner that i carelessly assumed was discreet without asking her beforehand, and didn't stop until she asked me to twice, as i didn't realize she wanted me to stop. She was traumatized from this, and broke up with me in the aftermath as a result of primarily this, and other issues, although she didn't distance herself from me much.

We decided to remain friends, though we did occasional have sex over voice call, which we started as per her request very soon afterwards, although she had later said that she used it as a form of self harm. Generally, her mental state had deteriorated afterwards, and she attempted suicide multiple times for the first time in a year. Alongside this, she developed a general distrust and hatred towards men, and was more prone to anger with me, understandably.

After 5 months, she stated that she thought that I had improved a lot, and was fine with getting into a relationship with me, and i accepted. The relationship was on and off, and usually after she broke up with me, we continued spending enough time with and being affectionate with eachother, until she called me "boyfriend", and we restarted until something similar happened again.

I had also coerced him into having sex with me afterwards. Although i did this without realizing, that, of course, doesn't absolve blame.

Around the start of this year, she put a more focused effort in staying broken up with me, and slightly distancing herself from me, although we still called either girlfriend/boyfriend in private while we were supposed to be broken up, and we hadn't stopped having e sex/acting sexual with eachother either, and, including her inviting me over, and us having (non penetrative) sex, although she wants to stop being in a relationship with me entirely, and has said that she does not feel safe with me.