As title, in one week, we have not had sex in 6 months. To me that is insane.

Context; I (M) have such a crush on this girl (F). She is in her mid twenties and I could age wise be her father. We met at some recurring venues about every two weeks. I work with security, she is a first aid responder.

She. Is. Gorgeous. One of her colleagues let slip that she was into me, and I finalle contacted her om Messenger three years ago. So we talk, it was fun, but she would sometimes just not reply, days or even weeks could go by, and no word from her.

Her explanation was usually that the was just busy, but it tore me up, and still does, that she just did not reply. Anyway as time went on I let her know I wanted to get to know her, meet her irl, see her, talk to her, touch her.

I knew from fb, she had a boyfriend, but she let me know that she liked me. So to make it clear, there was no sugar daddy issues here. I do not give her money, she is doing fine on her own. She own her apartment, and has never asked for help in any way. I own my own house, just less than an hour away form her.

So when talking to her about having sex we discovered that she liked to be done to her, exactly what I would like to do to her. Really strange, at first I thought she was joking, and that she said what she thought I wanted to her. But no, she suggested it, and was all for it. Deepthroat to be clear.

Then came the dragging. I knew I was the last on her priority list. She would always be making plans with others, friends, family, whatever, before she would even consider me. She even cancelled a planned date we had, so that she could spend time with her boyfriend instead. She says they do not have sex, but it hurt me anyway. Btw, her boyfriend lives about an hour away from her, but in a different direction than me.

So first real date we had, she kissed me for a long time. Second date she gave me a blowjob. Third date we had I ended up spending the whole weekend at her apartment, and we did all the things we talked about. Yes, we did it as they do on the discovery channel.

But then nothing. Like we were back to square one. She would ghost me for weeks, then tell me she often thought about having me between her legs. She has never said she did not want to continue what we had, but she has not once invited me to her place. Always me asking, and I remind her that I would like to see her again like every moth or two. I mean three days ago I got a picture from her, in her bed, telling me she was still dreaming about me. But one week from now, it will be 6 months ago we had sex.

Should I just forget about her? Are there just too many red flags, that I do not see even one?