I (28M) don’t want my brother (23M) coming to Christmas this year because he has recently cut me and the rest of our family off from most if not all communication. It started by not coming to small events like cookouts and gatherings but now it’s turned into family summer trips, birthdays, and now Easter but wants to show up for Christmas where our mother typically gives us a good amount of money and other items. AITAO because I feel like if you aren’t there but one day a year when you get stuff then you dont deserve a seat at the table or am I overreacting?