Would i be the asshole if i limited contact after the rest of my "family" after didn't bother telling me about my auntie dying (1 of 3 things) while they all told each other and people who aren't even related. They complain that i should just get over it and maybe i should but it doesn't sit right with me the fact that they didn't even bother to send a message/call/text, hell 2 of the members( with their own family) live just around the corner from me they couldn't even be bothered to come tell me. Hell Maybe i'm in the wrong here thinking that i need to know(entitled) information that's happening within the "family", saying that wanting to know information works both way.

So aita/wibta? Or i'm i just being pathetic here ?