My mother always manage to act like a victim in any fight.She always taunts me saying my marriage wont work cause of my nature and behaviour.But to rest all i am a good person and i never recieved any hate against me.

I never get involved in fights with anyone but it always has to be my mother.She will judge my choices and taunt about it that gets me angry and it leads to fights.She would always not like me taking any stand for myself and would act like I’m the villain everytime which gives my you nger sister the impression that i am at fault and she too starts being rude.

My mother always wants me to be perfect in all like be cooking ,studies,nature,work and every other thing the people around me do.She never appreciated me for a single good thing instead would say that i should know other things too and the more i get better she would point out to my other weak points.

My littlest choices like hairstyle,my clothes everything is like wrong to her like its all bad .She stops arguing only when i apologise even if it is my fault like zero fault.She would ask for my opinion and later bad talk about it.

She makes me feel so guilty for family stuffs and that it is me cause of whom some bad things have happened to us.And that she will get me married to someone so i will be gone once and for all.

Even if i do something for my family eith hood intentions she will think i have some selfish thoughts hence i did. She would keep bringing that how they provided me with everything i ever wanted and still i do not care about their hard work and sacrifices but in real i always think to make them happy.They have been takin all my life decisions and i have never said no to them i had to do whatever they wanted and said and i did but one mistake and they talk bad of me.

First they give me all the time and happiness and now they expect so many things in return for thier efforts.

It’s ok for get to make me cry but if it’s my friends or bf she will judge my choices and yell for that