So to make it simple, my gf went to a friend's birthday party and drank alot of alcohol that she got alcohol poisoning, she didn't die from it and nothing bad happened luckily but I told her to stop drinking alcohol, but she said she loves alcohol and doesn't want to let it go, so I kind of blew up and told her that maybe I should get back to boxing then since I stopped because she told me to because of an injury i got from it, she said it isn't the same and I continued and told her then how about I stop writing poetry since I learned it for her even tho I hate it and learning massages which required me to test it on my guy friends sometimes in public which gave me weird looks from ppl, while she doesn't put any effort into being a better person or at least stopping her addiction, and now she doesn't want to talk to me.

P.s.: am sorry if some things aren't understandable you can ask for anything and am willing to clarify it if possible