hi people of reddit, for context, last month i got out of a couple year relationship with my S/O, and we just reconnected and just spoke for hours. during our relationship she’d say i was the perfect guy, and i was an amazing guy, but with our reconnection she told me all the things i did wrong and why she left me, but was it wrong for me not to change if I didn’t know? I get it’s ignorant of me but the lack of communication almost made me feel like it’s her fault.