My name is Alice I'm 22 and my boyfriend Mike 22 and I have been in a relationship for the past 5 months we've been on the dating app we started dating one month after talking to each other 2 months after dating I had a falling out with my family and moved in with Mike Mikes mum and dad thought we were moving a little too fast in hindsight it was probably true but it doesn't matter we loved each other I don't know if this is where I may be the a-hole so about a month and a half ago Mike brought up the idea of moving across the country to where I'm originally from so it could be closer to my family because I was having a bit of problems he was having a bit of problems and we thought we would leave where we were and try somewhere new but about 4 weeks ago he told his Mum and Dad we were thinking about it his dad took it well but his mum didn't she thought I was manipulating her son I was trying to baby trap him and I was a gold digger I have a few mental problems from my abusive mother and stepfather so what I'm feeling attacked I get very afraid she said to her younger daughter that she was gonna sue me for defamation so a day later I booked a plane ticket and went home leaving Mike with his family I caught the first plane ticket out of there and left my boyfriend to put in his two weeks at his job and he's got a flight in a couple of days am I the a-hole for supporting my boyfriend in his decision to move and his mum not taking it well

I'm editing this at the moment his mum was treating Me horribly for months I moved to try and connect with my father it didn't work out I didn't have the money at the time to find a place of my own so he offered for me to stay with him until I could I suggested to him in a couple of months why don't we move back to my home it took a couple weeks but he agreed he was struggling mentally with everything that happened where we lived my English is not the best I'm sorry names and ages are not real but we are over the age of 20

I had to book the plane tickets for the next day because we had nowhere else to put me for two weeks and we didn't have the money all family to put me somewhere else where we currently live so I had to go back to my family where I'm originally from so I was safe