So recently my biological Father(49)has gotten out of jail. I wasn’t even a teenager when he got his sentence, so it’s been a good 10 years since the last time we spoke. I decided I’d give him a call to explain how I feel and to tell him I wasn’t sure I wanted to keep in contact. Before my Father was sent to jail, at a very young age, he and my Mother got a divorce and I moved out with her. Me and my older sister only got to see him during the summer and even then he worked a busy job so we barely even got to. Whenever he was around though he was uncaring and gave overly harsh punishments. Basically he was a text book definition of a Dead Beat Dad. One summer though, me and my sister ended up not going to his house because my Mother got told by CPS that he ended up touching and molesting children. Children I knew. After that day, I only spoke to him once and it was right before he was sent to jail. I’ve always had a problem with the man but after that I grew a large dislike towards him. In the call I told him that I don’t want him calling me and that I’m not ever sure I want to keep in contact with him. He then turned the conversation around and tried to victimize himself about how he was never a bad dad and that he wanted to change his life around. The call ended with me saying I don’t want to talk anymore and he said “if you don’t want to, then tell me to f—k off”. So that’s what I did and hung up afterwards. Am I the A-hole for this? I sorta feel bad because I wasn’t very nice, but I’ve had this feeling pent up for years.