Me (32f) and my boyfriend (41m) have been together for two years. We have been very open about sex since we got together but lately it’s been bad. The last about six months he’s been not wanting to have sex.. when we do, he doesn’t give me foreplay, make out or anything. Even though I expressed concerns. It’s gotten to the point where we get into fights about it and he promises it’ll get better but it doesn’t. Whenever we speak about it he’ll act blind to the fact that it’s not enough at all and just will say “we did it the other day” knowing that was the first time in two weeks. Now he’s saying I should go to him if I want it, touch him and get the mood going. I don’t so much lately because when I do it still gets nowhere he doesn’t seem to grasp that me enticing him into it isn’t the same as him acting like he wants me and coming to me. I express how I feel unwanted and keep asking what the issue is but I’m met with excuses like work is stressful or he’s tired exc. obviously I wonder if he’s cheating but I check everything possible all of the time and find nothing. I also have his location (his idea). Another note to add is he has a porn addiction he’s supposed to be letting up on… no sex drive but highly addicted to porn? I’m exhausted by this.