I 11yr old had a gf 12 yr old and we had a good relationship until a few weeks ago. One day a few weeks ago she started giving me silent treatment so I thought she was on her cycle turns out she wasn't. We'll call her K. So like I said K started giving me silent treatment and just saying bad things about me and it hurt because I tried my best to be a good bf besides my past of cheating. I just wanted closure and I asked for her to stop but that made it worse because she laughed loudly when people said things about me but when people did that I defended her. For example u guys know when kids measure someone else's forehead with their fingers? She ended up having a six head but when they made fun of her I stopped them. So after a few months of this happening we broke up but then got back together which to me was my worst decision. She started back doing again for 2 months straight but keep in mind I still defended her and when we first broke up everyone said I was the problem but they all don't have a bf or gf and I told them they don't know what goes on behind closed doors and some even tried to trip me. So I broke up with her again and I am currently trying to recover and get a new gf.So my question still stands. Am I the asshole.