My husband (M) 33 and i I (F) 32 have been together since we were teenagers, childhood sweethearts as some may say. We are now married with 2 daughters if my husband put the same amount of effort into love making as he does being a dad then there would be no need for me to be typing this post. Our sex life is minimal to say the least and when we do have sex it only lasts as long as he does(5 minutes on good day) and i am never left feeling satisfied infact, quite the opposite. I have tried so many times to have this conversation with him but it’s only ever met with complete sillyness and giggles or downplayed massively like it shouldn’t be an issue. I am now at the point where it’s almost make or break. I work 5 days a week do the most for our girls for the week with school and preschool, lunchboxes, pick ups drop offs clean uniform etc, you know just general mum stuff an everday life, whilst he also works full time. I am left feeling like my wants an needs are never truly met whilst he is blissfully unaware at how much this is getting to me. To make things worse and more awkward my husband lost his younger brother very out of the blue and unexpectedly last month so his minds obviously elsewhere with all of that an grieving. However we have had sex a couple times since then which he has initiated an still the same outcome. My mind goes into all kinds of outcomes- possibilities- scenarios- affairs?? I never wanna be that person. I just wanna feel like my husband wants to satisfy me as much as i ALWAYS do him.