I(16f) my mom(46f) got into a fight a few minutes ago.

About 3 days ago I asked my mom for chicken breast to make a chicken salad. My mom told my dad and my dad got it on his way home from work.

Those days I tried to make that salad but either I was too tired to cook anything when I got back from school or they didn't let me do it because we already had food.

Now today they left for a wedding and I noticed they took the chicken I wanted and made a meal with it which I didn't even eat.

I got upset and angry which made me cry andwi texted my mom some stuff that I guess made her upset. She didn't see it until she came home tho.

She came home and I was upset about the chicken. She tried to make up but I didn't wanted to talk. She took my phone and wouldn't give it back until I kissed her. So I did but I was still upset.

Then she saw the texts I sent her and got upset. She told me that my dad and his family did so muchastuff to her and that she wasthew victim and stuff. And told me that she didn't wanted to go to bed upset with anyone in the house because tomorrow isn't promised and I yelled at her back that she thought this was still just about the chicken. It was about being asked. They don't see me in this house.Theyc didn't ask me like "hey user are you gonna do anything with that chicken tonight? If not we are gonna cook it because it's going bad". Nothing. They said nothing to me. I was hungry all evening.

They don't include me in any desicions. I hate mybrotherb because he gets more privileges than me but we are only a year apart. And he rubs it in my face.

It's like I don't get to be upset at all in this house. They get mad at me when I cry or when I get angry. Or they laugh at me. This is too much for me.

Am I the asshole?