Here’s the deal: I (25M) and My wife (Leah 25F) has been best friends with this girl, (Sophie 23F), since middle school. Me and Sophie’s boyfriend, Jason (22M) I’ve known him for about a year, and honestly, I wish it was less.

So Jason and Sophie were flying in from the airport, and they needed a place to stay for the night. We agreed, because Leah’s too nice for her own good. Before they even arrived, we made it clear: “No funny business. Please respect our home, we’re being kind enough to let you stay here.” It was joking, but at the same time dead serious. Jason and Sophie clearly didn’t get the memo.

First off, they show up, and I’ll be honest — I never knew there was some unwritten rule that people can just come into someone else’s home and act like they’re at a motel to get it in. If that’s the new normal, then that’s a world I’m just not in. No one ever told me that when you’re staying with someone, you can ignore their feelings and warnings, and just go ahead and have s*x like it’s your personal playground. Maybe I missed that chapter of “Basic Human Decency 101.”

And they did exactly that they hooked up. In our apartment. I don’t care how you try to spin it, we told them not to. So we’re clear, this wasn’t a family friend’s house where they might’ve had a more laid-back vibe. This was our home. Not their place.

But wait, it gets worse. They drank everything in sight, left bottles around our place like it was a trash bin, didn’t offer to clean up, didn’t do jack. Then they had the nerve to take a shower and who knows what the hell they were doing in there. We can only guess.

As if that wasn’t enough my wife had to clean up Jason’s 💦tissues off the garbage and the floor. I can’t even process how disrespectful that is. That’s beyond disgusting.

And when we reached out to try and resolve it, Jason calls me and starts acting like I’m the one who did something wrong. He had the nerve to call my comments “creepy,” even though they were both serious and joking at the same time. Dude — you were literally warned. If you didn’t pick up on that, then maybe you need to start thinking with your brain instead of your d**k.

And then, to make matters even worse, he raised his voice at my wife, who was literally being calm and respectful throughout the whole interaction. Jason doesn’t know how to handle being called out for his trash behavior, so he tries to intimidate my wife. If Sophie couldn’t handle the situation like an adult, maybe she shouldn’t have sent her lap dog (Jason) to do her dirty work.

Here’s the thing: all we wanted was an apology. We wanted a simple acknowledgment that what happened in our home was wrong. Instead, Jason doubled down, acted entitled, and tried to deflect. He started bringing up how he “hadn’t seen Sophie in three weeks,” like that gives him a free pass to disrespect us. I don’t care. If you’re that desperate, wait another day, or better yet, get a hotel room like a grown man. If you’re so well-off like you claim, go book your own space to hook up in instead of treating our apartment like your personal love hotel.

Now, let’s talk about Florida for a minute. • I paid for my own flight. • I paid for my wife’s flight. • I didn’t even want to go, but Jason insisted. He wanted me there more than I wanted to be there. I only went because Leah thought it was a good idea for us to take a break. So no, I didn’t need to owe Jason anything for “letting us use his room.” It wasn’t a favor. We didn’t ask for it. We were respectful. We cleaned up. We were grateful. That’s how adults act.

But now Jason’s out here acting like he did us a huge favor, and that we should bow down to him for it? Nah, man. You don’t get to use that as leverage later.

We didn’t even want much — just an apology. That’s it. But instead, Jason tried to gaslight us, act like we owed him something, and turned the whole situation into a circus. I’m not here for that.

Jason can take his money and his entitled attitude and shove it. If you’ve got money to flash around, then stop treating other people’s homes like free places to fnck around. Get your own damn space.

Oh, and by the way — Sophie has had a pattern of freeloading off of Leah for years. Before we even got married, Sophie was using Leah as a free babysitter, dropping off her kid for the day so she could go talk to Jason, as if Leah was some free daycare. Leah has always been there for her, but she’s never had the decency to show any real appreciation. So yeah, when Jason and Sophie tried to act like we owed them something, it felt like a slap in the face.

So yeah, AITA for going off on him? Because after all the disrespect.