recently i went out for the night with my gf. we left our daughter with my gf's mom before we went out to drink, and we decided to get an uber to stay at a hotel for the night. we weren't celebrating anything, but this upcoming may, i'm finally graduating from university, and i've been, well excited yk. i brought this up to my gf throughout the whole night out, and of course she was excited too. we were talking about how our lives would become a lot easier, particularly with our time involving our daughter. when we actually got to the hotel, we stopped talking about our daughter. however, when we settled down, i brought it up again.

i told my gf how i wished our daughter was with us right now at that moment. when i said that, my girlfriend asked me why. i said that i just wanted our whole family together, and that i loved her. my girlfriend asked me why i was thinking about our kid at that moment, and i said that i was happy, so i was thinking about our daughter. my girlfriend started getting annoyed, saying how we could talk about her later. i asked her why it was bad to think about our daughter at all, and that we should always think about her. we started going back and forth, with the both of us just asking why we should/shouldn't be thinking about our kid rn. eventually, my girlfriend said she didn't wanna care about our daughter at all for a while, and that our daughter was just a "nuisance" right now. that got me mad to the point where i went to the bathroom to cool off a little. when i got out, my gf was gone. i called her and she told me she got a ride to go out with her friends for the night instead

the next morning, she picked me up, and since then, we've made up, atleast to as much as we could. for months now, my gf and i haven't been on the best terms. so for i guess a time when we shouldnt be worrying about anything, to end up in another argument, i'm still thinking about it. i understand where my girlfriend is coming from. however, i don't understand why i'm at fault at all for talking about our daughter.