📝 Am I the asshole for leaving my roommate to move in with my now husband

By InspectionPrior7077 • Score: 1 • April 24, 2025 4:30 AM


So a while back I was living in a house with SEVERAL other people like around 6-7 however they moved out and my then roommate moved in and at first I was like alright this is fine nothing really changed well I was WRONG!! You see my roommate decided she was gonna make a set of rules which I didn’t mind but the problem is we didn’t make them together in fact I had ZERO say in those rules that was only one small issue the bigger issue was that she never cleaned up after herself whenever she cooked and she cooked a lot! We also had a lot of cats that were both indoor and outdoor cats we agreed that as long she kept the litter boxes clean I would get all the necessities for the cats like food and more litter as I cannot stomach the litter boxes and will throw up, not only would she not do them but it got to the point where they started going to bathroom around the house and she refused to help clean up the mess and I ended up doing all of the cleaning 99% of the time. In the mornings before I went to work I would shut my bedroom door to keep the cats out to only come back home to my door being open meaning she went in there without my permission, two things 1) if you are gonna go in my room just ask me and 2) shut my door when you are done I went over that with her and she kept doing it my final straw is when she asked if I could cover her portion of the rent when I could barely afford anything my self as I was paying over a thousand in rent and over 500 on other bills and necessities I only get paid between 400-450 per week and those other bills don’t include Lyfts and Ubers to and from work whenever I didn’t have a ride and for those who ride share apps know they can be expensive especially in the mornings during rush hour and buying lunch at work as I work outside and I literally start to shake if I don’t eat for hours on end not only did she ask if I could cover her portion but the next day I saw a bunch packages for her on the front porch I have been feeling guilty about it and I don’t know why!!

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