M,37 im living with 2 roomates. F,3 F,34. i'm a little bit scared to post this... but here it is anyway. so her cat ms. fluffybutts, goes by they/them pronouns, but i accidentally called them... she/her because that was the cat's dead pronoun. and with my roomate were technically together. and have a kid but.. were chill like that. after i did that, my roomate yelled at me and said i should jump off a bridge because i misgendered her cat. she decided the cat's pronouns, because she said they were "kinda" zesty. and as a cat mom she could tell, anyways after that. she wouldn't talk to me, and she would usually make coffee for me in the mornings, then she put a insane amount of salt in there, and i had to spit it all out. and i have coffee beans inported from india, each cup of coffee cost me around 50$. and she says we might have to get a divorce, so am i the asshole?