I 24(F) have a boyfriend 24(M) have been dating for 4 years. We use to live together and have been separated the last 8 months trying to find a good balance for us. Anyway I woke up this morning and saw my mother sent me a reel no other texts nothing so I decide to check the open text I already have. I get on Facebook watch the reel go to tik tok didn’t even get 10 seconds into a video and my boyfriends text me pissed off I didn’t text him but I was active on Facebook. He takes this as I’m not thinking about him or I don’t care about him. I’ve explained to him several time I like to take a little time after waking up to you know wake up. He said that’s stupid and nobody does that. Well I do that. Anyway am I the asshole for not texting him the second I wake up?