as the title suggests, i’ve been doing it to other girls at my school and to girls on the hub. i asked my girlfriend if it was okay and she said doing it without the intent of liking that person is okay, like finding a random vid, but doing it to somebody specifically is cheating. i follow a lot of my classmates on instagram and i frequently will rotate back to their photos for that purpose. I haven’t told her this because i feel like if i do, she’ll break up with me. we’ve never done anything romantically or intimate or whatever so i’ve been needing a way to get rid of my stress. whenever making up a scenario or fantasy, it virtually always consists of other girls. should i tell her?