Me(21f), my husband (22M) pulled me out of his room. This all started when I jokingly said "what if I got pregnant by your dad?, that would be a crazy reddit story", before anyone says anything I admit what i said was quite insensitive but I didn't mean it literally i would never. Anyways this led to a big argument that led to talking about divorce. Which I've been thinking about for a while now since my husband is addicted to porn and tends to be quite narcissistic. He recently said that he would change and im not sure if much progress has been made, we still argue and call each other names, which I feel is very toxic. But anyways I was in his room and the argument got quite heated when I said "If we're divorcing could we date other people", and he got really missed and said " if you bring them over here I'll kill you and them", like I understand your anger but damn resorting to murder like that is crazy. He then wanted me out of his room and I wouldn't leave, so he starts pulling me and dragging me out of his room, I told him not to put his hands on me just because you're angry doesnt give you the right to lay your hands on me. And he kept doing it, he kept on grabbing me even though I told him to stop. I have never laid my hands on my husband, sure I've broken things but never laid my hands on him. Am I overreacting? Should I stay and try to work things out? Or leave?