Okay so my mother is a clean freak and i’ve repeatedly told her my room is private, that i don’t need her help to clean it. She’s christian and extremely judgmental so the weed and other stuff will be used against me. I also have really bad adhd and my room can get embarrassingly messy (mostly clothes and random items i don’t eat in there). she did this to me a few years back and we argued for 2 hours about it. then I got a lock and always locked it before I left… this time I forgot. so of course without asking she “surprises” me by cleaning my room. It feels like she doesn’t even know me, I’d rather someone see me naked than clean up MY room and mess. to me it’s a betrayal of privacy. I’ve made this clear sooo many times. now i’m crying on my way home in the uber. I am also autistic (diagnosed) so I may be having an episode. I know she meant well but this hurt me beyond belief.

AITAH?