One of my best friends who Ive known since HS, I’ve always hung out with, never had problems with, really good friends with his wife, always been there for him during rough, and good times, helped him paint his babies room, always ask how the baby is doing, didn’t invite me his baby shower. He says his wife was the one who made the list and even then that’s a terrible excuse. Nonetheless I told him I was surprised by their decision to not invite me. Idk why but it kinda is shitty on their end. AITAH?