So for some context, I have been friend with my friend (D) for a while. She’s had her ups and downs in life, but her biggest problem yet has been her narcissistic ex (M). He’s incredibly abusive, and they just had a kid together less than a year ago. Before their son was born, he had started becoming very abusive. He even cheated on her while she was pregnant and tried to run her off the road in her car with his car and actually got arrested for it, causing her to crash her car. They lived with her parents for a long time, but they would always fight break up and I had started seeing bruises all over her and asking her about them. She seemed to always go back to him, even though he was very abusive and I’d always tell her that that was a terrible idea and now with their son it’s even worse because I’m afraid he’s gonna hurt her son too. My final straw of being supportive of her choices about including him in her life was when she called me while he was screaming at her and on the phone, I could hear him hitting her and threatening her life, trying to kill her and everything like that I even have the recording.. well he got re-arrested, and she seemed to be finally moving on, but then they let him out and now he is harassing her about spending time with her. She has a restraining order, but she doesn’t want to be mean to him. I explained that if she doesn’t choose between him or her son’s safety that Cps might eventually step in or he might hurt her or the baby.Recently he sent her a text saying he has been posting about her and the people on Reddit think she’s garbage, but I know that truth. He’s garbage, toxic, and can’t see where he is wrong at all. I know I can’t force her to stay away from him, but I’m worried about her and her son. What should I do? Would I be wrong to tell her I can’t be her friend if she keeps contact with him? I’m concerned that being supportive will do more harm than good.