By PsychologicalMix7050 • Score: 1 • April 7, 2025 3:57 PM
AITA for feeling uncomfortable when my bf said he wants to be friends with his ex. So my bf and I are in a long distance relationship. It takes 3 hours to get to his place by both train and bus. We go to different universities. But we meet up on Saturdays for church and we have monthly dates. So before we met he was dating this girl who cheated on him with his close friend and she acted like she did nothing wrong. The friend apologised but she didn't. After this he was heartbroken and even when he told me I was hurt for him. So he failed to tell me tht when we first met those were the days tht they were breaking up. We got into a talking stage a week after.Because the chemistry was intense during this time period I wasn't aware. Fast forward to a month later I found out but I was fine. So I suggested that he should just cut her off because he can't keep such bad energy around him. He refused his excuse was he wanted to watch her suffer. I wasn't happy and I told him how uncomfortable I felt. He also complained about her alot but his complaints sounded more like why him not me ,why did u pick him over me. It made me so uncomfortable , and everytime I tried to speak up he would shut me down. So since he did not want to block her . I suggested closure talk it out and close the door forever, by closure I meant talking it out and agreeing tht he doesn't hate her anymore not Friendship I did this because hearing about her was unbearable. I was starting to feel insecure. He refused. He said he had no business talking to her . So 2 months later we were now dating. And a rumor about him was surfacing . She was spreading lies about him and this was damaging his reputation. He called me and said he regretted not cutting her off . But he still did not cut her off. 2 more months pass and I gave him an altamatum. He later on removed her from one of his social media accounts but she is still everywhere. And he blamed me for any future drama tht might happen. So fast forward to today. He said he spoke to her and they have come to a conclusion. And he forgive her. I'm glad tht he no longer carries such hate in his heart but I am not comfortable. It makes me feel weird and uneasy. I don't know what to do right now I'm ignoring him cause I need time to think ( please excuse my grammar and tenses English is not my first language)
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