So my boyfriend who is now 19 dated a girl when he was a sophomore in high school, they dated for around 6 months and she had told him she was diagnosed and is infertile and can’t get pregnant he ended up believing her and a few months later he realized she was getting a little bigger and when he brought it up she accused him of fat shaming her she even sent him a negative pregnancy test (she only sent one) anyway he ended up finding out that she actually was pregnant right before she was due (this girl had been drinking and never got checkups during her pregnancy) she tried to say she didn’t know she was pregnant but her own boyfriend was getting a feeling and when he found out he asked if there was any option because he had been lied to and he wasn’t ready to be a parent (he was 16) they told him he had to man up but he ended up moving in with his other family and signed his rights off (she also did her mom is a stay at home mom for the baby) her and her family still calls him a deadbeat and a pos for not “manning up” and he lost some of his family due to this. When we got together she had texted me in multiple different occasions harassing me they’re all blocked and currently we have been together for 2 years and are still getting random texts and calls from her I guess I’m writing this to get other peoples opinions on this because I don’t think he’s at fault or a “deadbeat” (the baby was adopted and him AND the girl don’t take care of it)