So I know I'm going to be TA either way, but which is the least amount? I've been seeing my bf for about 3 1/2 years. This relationship isn't doing it for me emotionally anymore and it hasn't for a bit. He lives about 11 hrs away hrs right now but is supposed to move back up here mid May & be a date to a wedding for me late May. For reasons, it's time to break up. Do I wait until he moves back up here and have a conversation with him in person, or should I call him and be honest with him now? I feel like he deserves it in person, and he won't want to keep living where he is now as it's too hot in the summer. I also have another place to stay so once I do it, I could leave for any time and give him space. But also I now everyday I feel like I'm lying to him, because really I am, when he says he can't wait to see me...I can wait.

Edit: I hear you guys. I'll see if I can have a call and do it either tomorrow or within these few days