Ok so I’m genuinely befuddled. My gf and I are LDR. About 3 hours apart. Her family lives near me. She was coming nearer to me for Easter to spend time with her family.

On Friday we met up and went for a walk. I told her I’d love to spend time tomorrow when she knew what her plans were with her family. I also told her my only commitment for Saturday was meeting up with some friends to express support for my buddy who just lost his dad. I told her it would be a couple hours but I didn’t know when.

I got a text from my buddy at 9 on Saturday saying he was free at 2. I texted my GF at 930 that I was going to meet my buddy at 2 and might be there for a couple hours but was free the rest of the day.

She texted me at 4 that I’d ditched her and that I didn’t care about her. I reminded her I’d said I was going to meet my friend the next day but she said she didn’t remember that and I’d ditched her. I told her that was uncalled for and I’d never lie to her about that.

She told me I needed to apologize for ditching her. AITAH?