Am I nuts??? Please tell me I am thinking too much to this. SHORT TO THE POINT:

My partner (M) and I (F) early 30s have been together for 2 years. I did what everyone says not to do and did the phone check. (Don’t yell at me I went with my intuition)

And oh honey I found plenty

Not only did I see infidelity with other women, but I found MF/T porn too- big surprise to me because he often makes jokes / seemed disapproving of this community. He said it was a “joke”. I didn’t want to pry… but I genuinely asked if he was bi /bi-curious / maybe just liked watching it? He denied all of this and held onto his masculine energy.

Looking at his other accounts I see a lot of other T 🌽🌟models he follows…. I can get over the cheating but I do want to know if he is settling sexually just to avoid “shame”.? Should I just leave it and move on entirely?? Should I ask again??