Backstory: We used to talk and flirt a little bit then I saw a lack of effort and realized he was talking to other girls so I stopped talking to him. He reached out a month later and we got on speaking terms but I made it VERY clear I don’t want a relationship or to date. strictly platonic.

A few weeks ago, I said something along the lines of “oh its the perfect weather for ramen” and he proceeds to leave his job early and show up at my job so we could go get ramen, after I said a million times not to come to my job and that I had to go home after work. Obviously I felt bad (he knew I would) so we end up getting food but I made so many comments about how he basically forced me to go out to eat with him and knew I was going to give in since he drove all the way to me.

Fast forward to today, I asked if he wanted to come shopping with me cause I wanted a new pair of shoes, we agreed on meeting at the mall after work. When I got off work, he said he was going to get off late and I should just go home. I got in a bad mood and just didn’t want to shop or go out anymore. I told him I have a headache and I don’t feel like it and that Im at home in bed now. He then proceeds to text me that he’s outside of my house and he wants to go shopping… I told him he can’t just show up to my house unannounced and he said “my bad ill go. sorry i got off late” and i said “no worries dude but you seriously cant just pull up on me” and he said “ok i apologize i thought it would be like a fun spontaneous thing sorry”

am I overreacting or is this genuinely weird, im kind of really freaked out.