My friend is gay and he's been in love w me for a while now. We're both friends with this girl, I recently started talking to her and we wanna get together but my friend is mad about it and says she is stabbing him in the back because she knows how he feels about me. Now I have to choose between resenting my friend and also losing the girl as a friend, or getting with the girl and possibly losing my best friend. This is fucked I don't know what to do. I want this girl bad and I think my friend is being selfish, honestly I think he needs to buck the fuck up, get over himself, accept we will never ever be a thing and just let me live. Am I an asshole?? Is anyone wrong in this situation? I want yall to know this guy is my ride or die and he's been there for me through literally everything, including really traumatic shit. I understand why he feels this way about me but j still think it's unfair to me and the girl.