I [30m] ve been dating this girl [27f] for 3 months approximately. I spent 2 nights with her, we kissed, cuddled, I fingered her, but she did not want sex. We work in the same company, and she ended 5 year relationship last year with one of my colleagues, and admitted one-night stand with another colleague a few months later after the breakup. She told me she truly regretted it, as she claimed she had never had one-night stand before, and she was sad, felt cheap and used. A few weeks after this one-night stand she slept with her ex for a few times, but nothing from that time. Its been 6 months since those events. The problem is, although she claims she likes me, she says that because of those events she doesnt want another affair with another colleague, because she has a "trauma" from the one night-stand and wants to have sex only in relationship. I feel its a little bit unfair, since she had an affair on the business trip and slept with a guy she did not know, and rejects me, who has known her for a long time and cares about her. AITA?