So I planned a gathering for me and my friends on my birthday April 11th, I invited at-least 10 of my friends to some trampoline park, anyway there was this girl who im not too fond of but we never had any real problems and apparently some of my friends (mutual friends with her) were talking about the party so she took the initiative to text me asking what she wanted me to get her for my party and she so excited. I replied saying “I didn’t invite you so…” and she knows that because I gave out specific invitations to people, but it started to turn into something bigger and eventually turned into a group-chat with me and all of my friends and the girl ima start calling J. So now the group-chat is basically divided with some saying she should just come and the other saying no and my final answer was no especially because J and my best friend weren’t on good terms and Im not gonna put her over my bsf. So at this point the group-chat is done talking but then my dad receives a text from J’s mother basically saying what happened and how hurt J is, I don’t really care but my dad and grandmother were saying im in the wrong and I should apologize to J for not inviting her.

So aita and should I apologize?