By pompompurnnn • Score: 42 • April 10, 2025 10:47 AM
Context: so we’ve been in a relationship for about 2 years now and everything was okay at the beginning we were happy and everything was going well for us it truly felt like we were going to be perfect and the perfect couple for one another. Into the relationship within the first two to three months she tells me about how horrible her past relationships were and how badly Everyone treated her and how they mostly all used her for her body and nothing else and they all really never respected her as a person and she also got cheated on several times along with other things. She was very depressed at the beginning due to all those things so I helped her out by being with her giving her attention buying her things and convincing her to seek therapy and open up a bit about things
I told her I would take care of her and treat her much better then anyone else had done before and I promised her I wouldn’t ever be with her just because of her body and that wasn’t my intention or something I cared about at all
Unfortunately 4-5 months into the relationship she ends up cheating on me with a random stranger and she lied to me about it and what broke me completely was she told me she loved me and everything right before she did it and then I confronted her about it and she said she would never do anything like that again.
She fell into a server depression episode and everything and stuff got rocky but I promised her I would stay because I felt bad and I didn’t want her to be alone ( I have a lot of empathy and I’m kind of stupid and don’t like to be alone) so I promised I’d stay and help her out of that depression once again since I’ve had done before.
Unfortunately once again she cheated on me 2 days ago and I’m lost on what to do completely I was just so broken and I don’t know what to do we are still talking currently and I feel like we’re okay I know I should probably leave and move on but at times she threatens to do bad things to her self she has before and again I feel bad and I have a lot of empathy for people so I tend to give in quickly.
She also admitted that at the beginning when we were talking and everything she use to do stuff with people at that time as well and I wasn’t the only guy she would talk to
What would you do in this situation and what should I do?
First time using Reddit and posting I’m truly sorry if the context and explanation is to long I hope some of you guys can at least help me out or give me advice at least i came to Reddit since I don’t have any friends or anything in general and I’m truly just alone and need advice I also apologize if I used the wrong Reddit posting thing I tried to post on relationship advice but it told me to post here I’m sorry if it was wrong.
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