📝 Going through bfs phone

By Any_Celebration_9008 • Score: 1 • April 5, 2025 9:56 PM


For context I am M/22 and my bf is M/23. Recently we hit a rough patch and have been fighting a lot but we got through it little by little. We talked and wanted to give our relationship another try as I kept causing fights over small things and would not handle it the right way which he started getting tired of it. We talked in person 2 days ago after a week of being unable to see each other cause of work and other stuff I had to do and he wanted to have this talk in person and not over the phone. he said he thinks we should ultimately break up because he is scared of us going back to our old ways. Thankfully I was able to convince him for one last chance and decided to try therapy because I really do want to be with him and need help with my anger. After giving me the chance we slowly got to our usual selves that we like but I still had a feeling in me that was scared he has done something already. After much thought I caved in and went through his phone and saw he was left open in a chat 2 days ago (on the day we talked about our relationship and if we should continue) on Snapchat with a guy he use to share nudes with before we were dating. I haven’t seen any saved convos but a swipe ups from his stories while we are dating but he does have saved nudes from before in their saved section of their chat. I’m just kind of scared about what they talked about that day bc there is nothing saved and just shows that my bf chatted last and was left on open. Should I also be worried that he still has him on snapchat where he has access to the nudes they shared? I don’t know how to confront him about it as there really is no evidence or if I even should. I’m just scared bc I have been cheated on before.

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