I’ve been dating a guy that I absolutely love in every way for about 3 months. We are older and have already talked about getting married. I was cleaning at his house while he was running errands, and organized a pile of magazines and bills. I saw two credit card bills with high balances and high interest rates… I’m talking over $100k in debt and 25% interest. He has a good job but this was a bit shocking to me as I don’t have any debts, I drive a crappy car that is paid off and don’t spend beyond my means. What should I do? AITA for even taking notice? Is it an invasion of privacy? I want to help him, I had credit card debt in my 20s and consolidated it into a 0% interest card and curbed my spending until it was paid off. He is constantly spending money, on dates as well, and I had assumed he had money to spend… but now I know he’s actually racking up debt at 25% interest… do I ignore it? Talk to him about it? Get a prenup if we do get married? Or STFU and mind my own business?? Help!