Ok hey guys so I’ve been dating this girl for around a year and a half. I live in NC and here you have to be separated for a year to file for divorce. Shes still currently married to the man as we’ve just now reached the year mark 4 months ago..the ex signed up for the military so she didn’t want to file then to not ‘deter him from signing up’ ok fine whatever now here we are and when the ex gets back from basic she picks him up and she just got done dropping him off at the airport. I get him wanting to see his daughter that they have together but they’re getting divorced and she’s supposed to be with me. AITAH for being upset she’s still catering to this man? I’m cool with him and his daughter having relationship I want that for them but there has to be other people to help this man