I have been friends with this girl for 5 years. We dated for a short time but nothing serious. I always helped her financially if she needed. We didn't speak for about a year. Maybe last April we reconnected and they said they had severe financial problems. I have been helping what I can these months. I lost my job recently and still continue to help. Now I have lost my apartment and live with parents. This person just told me they are going on vacation and have been saving for a year. How should I feel? Do I have a right to be angry? I wonder if I am wrong for saying something. But part of me thinks this is simply a toxic relationship.