I live in a house of 4 girls, working professionals. Less than three weeks ago a new girl moved in (exactly 14 days ago) This evening one of the girls tells me they are seeing/in a relationship with the new girl.

I don’t know why I feel so weird about it. It’s come as a shock and I am feeling really anxious about it. I don’t want to seem disappointed and dreading but I am. I am worried about being left out and the dynamic changing. I really don’t want to live with a couple but now I have no choice. The last girls moved out because she couldn’t live with her long term partner in the house with us. They’re lovely people but I just feel so weird about it as it been not even a month.

I don’t know if it’s because I am neurodiverse that I am feeling like this but don’t want to say anything as I’m happy for them but upset at the same time.

It’s only recently that I’ve felt comfortable in the house again as there was a girl who I didn’t get on with and now she has left I have been feeling more comfortable being at home. For clarity it’s not anything to do with them being a same sex couple as we are all either open or identify as LGB