Earlier today, I walked into our room and my husband was sitting in the bed with our 7-month-old daughter, and his vape was at his side. She kept trying to grab it, and so he was firmly telling her "no" repeatedly. A baby is super curious, so of course, she was going to keep going for it, so he just kept telling her no. Finally, after a few minutes, I told him the logical thing would be to never have his vape within her reach. He got super defensive, telling me he is tired of me telling him how to parent. He then went on to tell me that gentle parenting doesn't always work and I'm the reason our two older sons "act the way they do". Now, he is giving me the silent treatment.

Thoughts?